FUCK WHO THEY TOLD YOU YOU HAVE TO BE -
BECOME THE WOMAN WHO GETS TO HAVE IT ALL.
You built a life most people envy. Your rules. Your money. A career on your own terms.
People are in awe of what you’ve created.
You're making big moves in the world.
But then you stand in front of someone you want to want you and it's like someone you don't even fucking recognise steps forward.
The good girl. The easy one.
The one that apologises first even when he was out of line.
The one that performs whatever version of herself she thinks people want.
The one that shrinks herself into nothing because she knows the man, the friend, the people she’s chosen to surround herself with can’t or won't actually give her what she truly needs.
It's this version of you that’s pretending everything’s 'fine' when it’s actually not fucking fine at all.
And it's time to do something about that.
bodyoracle IS THE 4 MONTH 1:1 INTENSIVE WHERE YOUR GOOD GIRL BURNS.
It’s an excavation of every single place you’re still playing small, tolerating shit you would never let your friends accept and still living a life that was never built around the true you.
It’s where the most brutal heartbreak of your life becomes the reason you stop giving a fuck about who they told you, you had to be to be 'chosen' and you finally become the woman who would never trade herself for someone else again.
MOST WOMEN LIVE IN ONE OF TWO COSTUMES
ALL ARMOUR, NO ACCESS
You’re the capable one.
You handle it, fix it, carry it, and need nothing from anyone. She shows up in your relationships, your friendships, your business. There’s a facade of vulnerability, but nothing gets in, including the support, pleasure and love you say you want. You’re respected, impressive and powerful, and also exhausted and lonely.
ALL GIVING, NO SELF
You give everything, ask for nothing.
You feel what everyone around you needs, and you become it. You shapeshift into whoever you think they need you to be, give them whatever you think they need, and put their every desire ahead of your own. You walk into every relationship, friendship and room already adjusting.
Everyone is comfortable except you.
TWO COSTUMES. ONE WOUND.
THE ORACLE WOMAN WEARS NEITHER.
Her strength isn’t armour. It’s the standards she holds.
And her softness isn’t weakness. It’s access to what she actually feels.
And that's the North Star her whole life moves by.
THIS IS WHO YOU BECOME IN BODY ORACLE.
BODY ORACLE IS WHERE YOU BECOME THE HOLY TRINITY :
SOFT ENOUGH TO FEEL EVERYTHING,
STRONG ENOUGH TO WALK THE FUCK AWAY FROM ANYTHING THAT DOESN’T SERVE YOU,
AND SO SURE OF YOUR WORTH THAT YOU’D NEVER TRADE YOURSELF FOR SOMEONE ELSE AGAIN.
Because let's face it. You’ve sat in a therapist’s office for years, paying $150 an hour to describe the most recent chaos in your forest fire of a relationship. But every time you finish talking and walk home, you have the same fight you had last month and every month, trying desperately to get him to see your point of view. Then you do his laundry, call his business partner to make another excuse for his shitty behaviour and spend the third night this week trying to convince him to give you the things he has no intention or capacity to give you in the first place.
And even when it ended, it didn't really end.
And that's why, inexplicably, a year after your last relationship ended, you’re standing outside yet another man’s apartment at 11pm, rereading his texts, over-explaining why you need better from him, making excuses for everything he does that hurts you - somehow right back in the exact loop you worked so hard to get out of the last time.
In your head, you know the choices you’re making make no fucking sense.
Because even though you 'understand' how messed up it is - you keep choosing men who want a completely different life from you, or who are so unpredictable that your body is on constant high alert. And it's costing you - in unexplained migraines, the constant gnawing anxiety in your stomach that you wrote off as gluten intolerance, the utter exhaustion that you push through like it’s totally normal, because to you it is. All this time, your body was trying to tell you - but you’re so practiced at not paying attention that you haven’t been able to hear.
And none of this is something you’ve been able to 'understand' your way out of.
BECAUSE WE BOTH KNOW IF 'UNDERSTANDING' WAS ENOUGH -
YOU WOULD BE FUCKING GOOD BY NOW
BODY ORACLE WAS BUILT FROM ONE BRUTAL REALISATION
Almost every way I found to ‘heal after heartbreak’ was designed to help women feel just better enough in the moment to forget.
Reflect. Understand. Move on.
Until six months later you’re right back at square one - over-explaining your needs, justifying their shitty behaviour, desperately trying to convince another emotionally unavailable man to choose you.
And I know that’s not enough for you this time.
You don’t want to just move on from this breakup.
You want it to become the thing that made it impossible to ever return to the version of you that was comfortable settling for so much less than you actually wanted and needed.
And not just in love. In your entire god damn life.
And let’s be real - talk therapy is amazing, but it only ever works with your conscious mind, which only ever accounts for about 5% of your behaviour. Inside Body Oracle, we work with the other 95% - that actually shifts how you live.
The nervous system. The subconscious. The patterns that exist in your body that automatically decide who you choose, what you tolerate and what you believe is possible for you, before you even realise you have the option to choose.
THIS IS EXACTLY HOW BODY ORACLE TURNS THIS HEARTBREAK INTO THE MOMENT YOU WOULD NEVER CHOOSE THEM OVER YOU EVER AGAIN
- THROUGH -
THE BODY ORACLE™ FRAMEWORK
THIS IS NOT THERAPY.
It’s not just more talking about 'what happened'.
It’s a four stage recalibration that changes what your body chooses before your mind gets a vote.
MIRROR
Your heartbreak becomes the mirror.
You stop running from the pain and finally become willing to see what it’s been trying to show you. The beliefs, wounds and patterns that have kept you stuck in challenging relationships and destructive loops since long before he arrived.
You use this mirror to look at all the places they’ve been quietly running your life: your relationships, your choices, your sense of what’s possible. Only then can you see what has to change to stop repeating them.
This is where you stop abandoning yourself for connection. Deep self-trust becomes the baseline, and putting yourself first becomes the standard, not the exception. You learn to finally choose yourself first every single time.
BODY
Go to the one place you’ve been ignoring for years,
and listen to what it’s been telling you all along.
You start to feel everything you’ve always kept yourself numb to. You grow your connection with your body so it can tell you what you need, what you want, and what you need to walk away from. You reconnect with your intuition, your knowing and the desires you've lost touch with.
Here we use somatic practices to clear the conditioning that keeps pulling you towards the same men and the same heartbreaks, and grow your capacity to regulate and expand so you can handle whatever life throws at you. This is where your nervous system stops making the automatic choices of people-pleasing, shrinking and over-giving, so fast you never register them as choices in the first place.
The red thread of every stage is sensuality.
Sensuality becomes the direct line, access point to your nervous system, your emotions and what it feels like to actually exist inside of your body, so we can anchor new standards and boundaries deep into your nervous system - where they become your new normal.
REWIRE
Rewire everything you never chose.
We work with the inherited beliefs, stories, patterns and conditioning at two levels. In the mind: the conscious and unconscious beliefs you hold about who you need to be to be chosen, and the family history they came from. And in the body: the habits, instincts and resonance that run without your permission, pulling you towards what’s familiar even when it hurts you.
Through energetic work, lineage work and body-based modalities, you rewire your relationship with your confidence, your worth and your past. It changes who you’re drawn to, how you behave, and what your instinct chooses before you’ve had a chance to understand you’re making a choice.
This is where you stop choosing chaos because of everybody else’s unfinished business and start living from your own truth.
REBUILD
Rebuild the woman who would never choose that reality again.
You step into a new version of yourself and grow the confidence to live authentically in every detail: the choices you make, how you express yourself, how you move through life. You step into your power, one that doesn’t depend on anyone’s approval, validation or circumstances.
All the love, care and energy you’ve been pouring into managing other people’s chaos now gets funnelled into your mission. You step into the soul’s calling work, birth the creative vision that’s been stored at the back of your mind for years, and you pour every part of yourself into creating the beautiful vision of life you've long been dreaming of all along, while being handsomely paid for it.
WHEN THE VISION BECOMES NON-NEGOTIABLE,
THE PATTERNS STOP BEING AN OPTION.
WHO YOU BECOME :
UNSHAKABLE SELF-TRUST
You stop living on high alert in situations you knew you needed to leave two years ago. No more checking your phone with your stomach in knots. No more scanning the room for what’s wrong.
The headaches, migraines, stomach pains and UTIs on repeat that were a constant companion in your last relationship stop, because your body no longer pays the cost for the relationships or situations you talked yourself into with your mind.
You become so connected to yourself, your needs and your emotions that pretending you can’t see exactly what you’re doing when you’re abandoning yourself is no longer an option.
UNCONDITIONAL SELF-WORTH
You stop being the most useful woman in the room to be chosen. Stop proving, fixing, tolerating and over-giving to earn the validation of the people you want to choose you. Stop people pleasing to keep everyone else comfortable. You stop rescuing people who never asked you to save them.
Instead, you're loved without earning it. Complimented without deflecting it. Paid what you’re worth without questioning it. Touched without performing it.
You stop chasing the illusion of worth in a man, in validation, in the Instagram-perfect life - in everything you were told would make you happy but never has. You live from the deepest belief in your own value, and nothing anyone does or doesn’t do changes that.
UNAPOLOGETIC STANDARDS
You stop insisting you 'have standards' while letting people fall short for the hundredth time. You stop begging people to show up for you by being unapologetic about what it takes to actually gain access to you and your life.
You hear your body’s warning on the second date, not in the second year, long before it has to turn into a stomach ulcer or a UTI to get your attention. You notice the pull toward the half-available, the broken, the one who needs you, and your body doesn’t blindly follow it. You stop negotiating with what you already know isn't good enough. When it’s over, it stays over.
This unapologetic baseline is now the standard everywhere - in love, with money, with clients, with friends, with the experiences you choose. And your entire life upgrades in line with this new reality.
REMEMBER WHO THE FUCK YOU ARE
This is the season of becoming the woman you’re absolutely fucking obsessed with. You know exactly who you are, you know what you deserve, and nothing and no one pulls you off track anymore.
You trust yourself enough to do the damn thing. You step into the role that terrifies you. You make the changes that look insane from the outside. You let go of the business, the title or the life you've held onto for years, because you know it’s no longer true.
The choices you’ve been too afraid to make for so long, you make them. Not because they feel safe, but because you know they’re right, and you’ve stopped waiting for anyone’s permission.
You remember who the fuck you are, and you act accordingly.
THE WOMAN YOU COULD BE A YEAR FROM NOW DEPENDS ON THE DECISIONS YOU MAKE TODAY.
WHAT DO YOU CHOOSE?
THIS IS NOT WHERE YOU COME TO STAY COMFORTABLE.
This is not a place to retell what he did, what they said, or how unfair it all was. You’ve told that story to your friends, your therapist and the ceiling at 2am. It hasn’t changed one thing about your life.
Body Oracle is where you turn the mirror around. Not to blame you, but to find you : the part that stayed, the part that went quiet, the part that called the chaos love.
Here we excavate. We find what you’ve been protecting, what you learned in order to survive, and what has been choosing for you without your permission.
Nothing you uncover is wrong with you. All of it is yours to change.
Because you don’t come here to be comfortable. You come here to become the woman who refuses to settle a moment longer.
What my clients are saying...
Some things have become completely impossible to repeat. Even if some parts of me want to sacrifice myself, to shrink, to prioritise a man instead of my own wellbeing, my body responds with a stubborn “NO”.
ULIANA, UKRAINE
When I came to work with Alaska, I was so frustrated with my own obsession with men. There was always a placeholder in the centre of my mind that was filled with some man.
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I stopped living for everybody else. I stopped being the version that everyone around me wanted me to be. I started trusting what I actually wanted. I stopped convincing myself that almost was good enough for me.
ELISE, USA
I came to Alaska after a messy breakup from my fiancé - a man I knew wasn't right for me and somehow still dated for four years.
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This is the most aligned and alive I’ve ever felt. I really wanted to live my best, most authentic life, and that's exactly what I'm doing now!
LAURA, UK
Before working with Alaska, I was really struggling. I'd recently ended an incredibly toxic 4-year long affair, my 20 year marriage was in pieces and I felt as if I'd lost all trust in myself and my life path.
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I know what I want and I don't apologise for it. I feel good in my body, I feel confident, secure and I trust myself. I feel free. I love my life so much more now because I stopped accepting things that were just 'good enough'.
REN, GERMANY
Honestly I didn't even really see how bad things had gotten until it was the worst it had ever been. My relationship was a mess - toxic, going nowhere and I stayed way too long anyway.
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I know what my standards are now and will not lower them for anyone less than what I desire. And I won't get into a relationship out of a need for attention or avoidance of myself. I am fully connected to the dream life I am creating and know I am worthy of!
ALICIA, USA
Before I joined Alaska's program, I had been struggling with accepting my true Self and my sexuality (religious trauma) and was also deeply struggling with letting go of a relationship that was draining me both mentally and energetically.
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DON’T TAKE MY WORD FOR IT. TAKE THEIRS.
Hey, I'm Alaska.
I used to have this 'dream life'. I was a successful DJ and Interior Designer. I had an amazing relationship, beautiful apartment, dreamy instagram feed, the incredible career I'd dreamt of and by all metrics, the 'perfect' life I thought would be everything I ever wanted.
But the truth was, I was drowning.
My 'beautiful' relationship was a push-pull, toxic mess that felt totally out of my control. My sex life was one fake orgasm after another. I was the 'strong one' that no one ever helped. I had created success in my business and felt unfulfilled and trapped. To the outside, my life seemed enviable - but beneath it all, I knew I was settling for so much fucking less than I actually wanted.
Then the pandemic shattered everything.
The life I had meticulously built unraveled.
My partner of three years walked away for good. My mother went to bed one night and didn't wake up. My careers vanished almost overnight. And the relentless strain of it all pushed me to the brink - until I was hospitalised with a bleeding stomach ulcer that nearly killed me.
So this time, instead of hiding, I decided to let this rock bottom moment change everything.
That next year cracked me open.
I finally stopped running from what my body and my life had been trying to show me all along : I had been abandoning myself for as long as I could remember. Sleeping on the ground so he could have the mattress I brought. Faking orgasms. Taking the train home after collapsing with exhaustion behind the DJ decks, because I didn’t believe my comfort was worth the taxi fare.
I took men and what everybody else wanted from me out of the centre of my life and put myself there. I moved 2,000 miles across Europe to the ocean in Ireland and spent 18 months retraining as a Love, Sex and Relationship coach, investing $12,000 I did not have because something in me knew it was the most important ‘Yes’ I’d ever said.
I learned to stop negotiating with what my body already knew. I built boundaries and standards that meant I could trust myself to walk the fuck away from the man, the friendship or the life when it no longer fit.
Now I live on my dream paradise island in Thailand. I’ve built a business helping other women heal their heartbreak and break patterns keeping them stuck in lives not meant for them. I founded a dog rescue that has saved more than 800 animals (and counting...)
It’s a life that would have felt absolutely fucking impossible to the woman who was doing her best to keep the peace in a relationship built on chaos, trying to prove she was good enough to be chosen.
I didn’t just heal my heartbreak. I let it shatter everything in my life that was never meant for me in the first place so I could rebuild what was.
BODY ORACLE IS FOR THE WOMAN WHO HAS DECIDED TO CHOOSE HERSELF.
You’ve got a huge god damn vision of what you want the next stage of your life to look like, and you’re no longer willing to compromise it for a man, external validation or to stay being the woman they told you that you had to be.
You’re ready to do whatever it fucking takes to stop repeating this pattern so that you can finally choose yourself.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
- You're done pouring your time and attention into fixing him, the relationship, or whatever chaos is going on this month.
- You want to feel safe in and trust your body, instead of overriding it every time you try to entertain another situation you know isn't right for you.
- You want to know exactly who you are and what you want, so when you stand in front of another person - you stay yourself, instead of performing whoever you think they want you to be.
- You want standards and boundaries you actually hold, so you walk the fuck away when something or someone doesn’t meet them, instead of spending three years trying to convince them to.
- You’re done letting an invisible glass ceiling cap your dreams, business or finances, because you know exactly what you want and you’re ready to feel worthy of every single part of it.
- You want a life that finally puts YOU at the centre, whether that’s building a business that actually matters to you, creating a mission that changes lives, or moving across the world to live a new adventure.
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
You're secretly negotiating with yourself about going back to that man, that pattern or that same destructive loop.
Body Oracle is for the woman who is all in on her vision for the life she wants to create next -
because it WILL make it impossible to go back to your old ways.
WHEN YOU JOIN BODY ORACLE, YOU'LL RECEIVE :
INCLUSIONS
10 x 70-Minute Private Sessions
Somatic and nervous system work, subconscious reprogramming and parts work, tailored to your patterns at the depth and pace you need. The patterns pulling you back to the same man get seen, cleared and rewired in real time, before they cost you another year. You leave each session having changed something.
3 Private Workshops
Chosen for what your patterns need most : Family Constellation, Heartbreak Breathwork, Sensual Movement or Kundalini Activation. They reach what talking alone never will.
Weekly Embodiment Rituals
Weekly practices, meditations, activations and reflection exercises, in short video or audio format, working on your conscious mind, subconscious and nervous system at once, so the shift keeps happening between sessions. Lifetime access.
Telegram Support
You don’t close the call and go it alone. I'm with you between sessions, Mon to Fri (Bkk time), for the hard days and the questions that can’t wait until next week.
Month 4: Integration
A full month of Telegram support after your final session, to embed the shifts and decide what comes next.
An Invite to The Oracle Path™
Body Oracle built the woman you’ve become. The Oracle Path™ is my ongoing 1:1 mentorship for the woman who is ready to build the obsession-worthy life that matches the bad bitch she's become.
THE TRUTH IS YOU'RE ALWAYS PAYING A COST.
THE COST OF STAYING THE SAME, OR THE COST OF CHANGING EVERYTHING. ONLY ONE OF THEM GIVES YOU YOUR LIFE BACK.
THE INVESTMENT
BODY ORACLE™
$4,500 USD
The complete 4-month 1:1 intensive.
Payment Plan available.
3 X $1,600
BODY ORACLE™ GOLD
$9,500 USD
The full Body Oracle™ experience, plus an immersive private retreat in the lush jungles of SE Asia.
Everything in Body Oracle, plus :
- A 6 Day & 5 Nights private 1:1 retreat in the lush jungles of Southeast Asia. An immersive, in-person deepening of everything built in the container - in one of the most transformative healing environments on earth.
Payment plans available.
Enquire on application.
Once you click apply, you'll be taken to a short application to share a little about where you are and what you're looking for. If you're a good fit, I'll be in touch within 48 hours to discuss next steps. Spaces are limited.
EVERY WOMAN WHO RADICALLY CHANGED HER LIFE HAD A MOMENT SHE COULD NEVER GO BACK FROM. LET THIS BE YOURS.
FAQ
I'm already in therapy - how is Body Oracle™ different?
Is this too woo-woo for me?
How do I know if Body Oracle™ is the right fit for me and if it’s the right time?
What does a typical 1:1 session look like?
What is the weekly time commitment for the at-home practises?
Is the investment worth it?
I absolutely know this is for me. How do I proceed?
ALASKA WOLFE IS A PROUD SUPPORTER OF ANIMAL WELFARE WORLDWIDE.
Protecting and advocating for animals is at the heart of my mission.
When you join Body Oracle™, two street or shelter dogs or cats will be spayed or neutered in your name - a life-affirming act that eases suffering, prevents future neglect and fosters a kinder, more harmonious relationship between humans and animals.
Thank you for being part of this mission.